We always hear about how often the people who seem the happiest are fighting some pretty dark feelings in their day-to-day life and it appears to be that way for Shaq.

While Shaq regularly appears to be a fun-loving, big ball of joy, taking on all sorts of fun projects, the advice he has for his now fellow pro-sports retiree, Jason Kelce, has people hopeful the loveable giant has a good therapist.

On a recent episode of “The Big Podcast” Shaq urged Jason Kelce to spend as much time enjoying and appreciating his wife and kids as he can because he didn’t and admits he lost it all.

“I was an idiot. And I’ve talked about it a long time,” Shaq said. “Lost my whole family. I’m in a 100,000-square-foot house by myself.”

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